Starting Over

Hello My Name is Renee,
I am very new to this Blogging but I thought I would give it a try to see how it goes.
I am recently divorced and when this day happened I truly thought my day was coming to a end, So I will start from the beginning Here.
On Nov 5th 2009 my Husband that I had been with for 16 years sits down on the couch next to me and says I am  emotionally  done and do not want to be married anymore, as you may know I was totally shocked by the news and at first was silent and just did not have any idea what to say, then I spoke and said no why are you wanting to do this, he said I am just drained and I want out.. I then said well lets go to counseling, he said nope do not want that just want a DIVORCE!!!!
I went from calm to well e rational, I started to cry and started to get rid of everything in site that was from our wedding and told him to get out.in which he packed his stuff and left I called my best friend Missie and told her and she was over just like that, with in 2 hrs he was back could not believe it.
he went to the spare room and went to bed.
I had text a real good guy friend of mine that we have been friends since high school and told him what happened at that time wanted a mans point of view of what he thought, and yes he told me exactly what I had suspected all along that he was cheating on me, but did not want to believe that he had done this to me.
The Next morning Steve had gotten up and tried to hug me and Kiss me and I said are you kidding me you just asked me for a divorce and you think I am going to embrace you just leave, and this time he had.
for many of weekends he left and went to his parents home. I then thought I need to restart my life also, so I started to drive back to my home area where I grew up and visited my family and friends alot.
Holidays were kinds tuff that year due to how close it was that Steve had asked for the Divorce, Spent Christmas day alone and was sad at first then my good friend Kevin had text me and from 4 p to 1 am we were chatting and having a great time, so it did make that day a ok day for me after all.
by Jan I decided I no longer could stand it and I moved out to a apartment of my own which Steve had no idea I had done I waited till he left that fri and I moved out and into my place in one day, on sunday when he got home he came home to me gone and was shocked I had done this, but I did and I was proud of myself because he had said you will not make it on my own.
To make this story short now I did move on with my life started dating a high school friend yes it is Kevin and I moved out of the cities and back to my home town area with Kevin and have gotten caught up with old and new friends and loving the area and my new job also was very hard to leave my last job of 10 years but I am very happy were I am today.

 Thank you for reading
Renee